12/19/2024
Lighted Fingers
12/15/2024
Through the Lens of a Child
12/11/2024
The Gift of Faith and Faithfulness
12/07/2024
Rare as a Blue Rose
What devastating damage the pandemic inflicted on spontaneity! After a three-year hiatus, routines could no longer be reconstructed; normal activities prior to that long imprisonment gathered dust.
Coffee chats with friends used to be just a text away. “I’ll see you there in 20 minutes.”
Family visits were unscheduled and could happen anytime. “We’re here; we brought merienda!”
All these became as "rare as a blue rose," the idiom I like to use for rarity.
"Did you know that blue roses are now aplenty?" one friend exclaimed when we finally met for lunch after many months of hedging and re-scheduling.
That piqued my curiosity so I did a quick research. Indeed, the AI generated blue rose above is no longer a dream. Due to the absence of the pigment delphinidin, which give the blue hue, blue roses were (past tense) rare.
In recent years, however, there has been a scientific breakthrough. Researchers have added genes to roses to make natural blue colors.
Ergo, blue roses are no longer as rare as I thought. They are now a-plenty and a reality in flori-culture.
“Ding, dong,” our doorbell rang one day this month. “We’re here!” My sister, one brother and his family, came to visit unexpectedly. And they brought merienda!
From this day forward, I will stop using the idiom about a blue rose being rare. Because meet-ups with loved ones two years after the pandemic are now aplenty and a reality in people-culture.
"For from his fullness we have all received, grace upon grace." John 1:16
12/03/2024
MIBF 2024!
11/29/2024
Once Upon a Time
11/25/2024
Signing and Singing are Synonymous
“Dyslexic!”
I have been called that—often—by people I spend most of my time with: family and close friends.
It’s because it takes me more seconds than they do in distinguishing left from right, push from pull, north from south, entrance from exit.
Sometimes, I also mix up sounds of words. I’d say Dantu Date, instead of Dante Datu (his real name), or Papelmeroti instead of Papemelroti (spoonerism, it is called).
“Should I be worried?” I once asked a doctor about these maladies.
She laughed. “You are a writer, and therefore, a multi-thinker. There are too many things in your mind at the same time, making you oblivious to signs and sounds.”
And now this:
Signing and singing, to me, are the same. Signing my books is building connection with the reader. It’s as though we are being connected by an invisible velcro. And that makes my heart sing.
11/24/2024
18 Years of Grace
11/21/2024
The GIFT of Seniors
11/17/2024
A Little Try and They fly
11/13/2024
What’s the Big Deal with Haircuts?
Well, the boys in our family have theirs every three weeks. Many other friends say the same. It’s as commonplace as mowing the grass. So what’s the big deal?
For me, it was a BIG deal. For 20 years, I had the same hairdo, being trimmed by my hairdresser, Chat, every three weeks. I had to maintain the same look for photos in my books. In fact, I had compared myself to the Queen of England who had to keep the same hairdo, or the government would be changing those stamps and money as often as she changed her silhouette.
But the pandemic barred me from going to the salon for three years, and during those times, my new books had to feature my old photos, which I thought was dishonest as I no longer look that way.
Anyway, the pandemic ended and finally, I had a haircut.
But the three years (ravaged by two Covid assaults), I self-reflected and decided not to be hung-up on consistent brand image (a habit I acquired from years in advertising). I opted for one that would hide my hearing aid and will not require me to wear earrings.See, advertising has changed big time, too. Look at those AI-generated-and-content-creator ads online. They maintain no template! The mass media of my generation is in ICU and has flatlined.
BEFORE AFTER With filters and editing apps available today, nobody really knows how one looks like in person just by seeing photos online, right? I am not even sure if I look right (on the right). |
11/09/2024
Chasing after Me
11/05/2024
October: Go! Where?
P – Pray for missions, missionaries, the lost, and unreached people. Participate in the church’s missions events.S – Support those who can go out by giving to the church’s Mission fund. Sing aloud “Jesus Only,” our main message to the world, and to ourselves.A – Applaud those in the mission field. Appreciate them through letters, words, or any other form of love gift.L – Learn from missions-specific teaching and training in church. Listen to sermons about God’s heart for the nations, evangelism, and missions.M – Meet a missionary and hear about his/her work to preach about salvation. Meditate on how God saves sinners.
11/01/2024
Clickbait
“Once upon a time, it was called a LIE. Nowadays, it’s called a CLICKBAIT. (And it’s OK, because that’s how it goes to get ahead?) She quotes the Bible: “…and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone…” Rev.21:8 (KJV)
10/28/2024
No Writing to Encourage Writing
Ironic isn’t it? I skipped writing so I could encourage others to write. For one whole day, I abstained from writing, with no time to even go near my computer.
Elena, a dear friend and the wife of one of our former beloved pastors, invited me to speak on writing and storytelling for children in a workshop for Christian Education Directors*. The venue was at a church in the boondocks (the term used by our family driver), Quezon City. It’s a one-hour drive from our home. But with “the horrible traffic,” he said, our travel could take two to three hours.
Properly warned, I woke up early and off we went!
There were about 50 people, from all parts of the country, inside the church.
They were an enthusiastic, vocal, and active participants. They shared their thoughts and listened intently to the writing tips. I didn’t have to encourage them to write and tell stories to children. That’s what they do, with passion!
All they needed was a slight push from someone who nags to keep the writing fervor aflame (it was a good time to give away my book, The Teacher in Me, as prizes), so that, through them, the children in church will continually learn about the greatest Teacher's ways.
The hours given the workshop was “bitin,” (too short), according to some attendees. For me, that was an excellent evaluation of the event. It is how I define learning—unquenchable thirst. It reminds me of what I always stress in classrooms. “Never stop improving your written work. There is always that 5% missing to move it from good to great.”
Working with fellow workers in the Lord’s service cannot be measured in terms of joy. It is bottomless grace.
Elena, her husband PastorPastor Joel, and moi |
"Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God." Colossians 3:16 ESV
It was my day of non-writing but just as fulfilling, if not more!
*A Christian education director (DCE) is a church leader who plans, oversees, and assesses educational activities for a church congregation.
Credits: All photos sent by Pastora Hope Carino. one of the drving forces of the event and the group
10/24/2024
What, Me worry?
This catchphrase was popular in my youth. It was first an advertisement for painless dentistry and later adapted as a motto said by a fictitious mascot named Alfred E. Newman of Mad, an American humor magazine.
Newman’s gap-toothed smile, freckles, red hair, protruding ears, and scrawny body had been the cover art of the magazine for many issues. Created by American artist Norman Mingo, the character was first used in 1954.
It resonated with the readers because worrying seemed to be a daily staple due to the many unsettling events like nuclear bomb, wars, and natural disasters.
Five decades later . . . I read in Believe it or Not, which is beside the crossword puzzle that I solve (daily grace I receive early in the morning), “Cornell Unversty recently conducted a research on worrying and found that 85% of the things we worry about will never happen.”
Over an extended period of time, subjects of the study were observed, asked about the things they feared. Then the research delved into which imagined misfortune actually came true. Hah, a whopping 85% didn’t! Worrying had been for naught.
The Bible has assured us, thousands of years before this catchphrase came to be, that worrying can be replaced with peace.
Worry not, indeed! |
10/20/2024
Worst Kind of Selfishness
There are many kinds of selfishness in this world, but the most selfish is hoarding time. Why? Because none of us know how much time we have, and it is an affront to God to assume there will be more.
This nugget of wisdom I learned from Mitch Albom’s latest book, Finding Chika.
He didn’t want to have a child early in his marriage. But when he and his spouse finally decided they wanted one, it was too late. All medical remedies failed.
In our women’s Sunday school, we study about and pray for those who put off repenting for their sins and accepting Christ as their Savior. They argue that He is a God of love, and will always forgive them when they finally decide to leave their old life, which they enjoy, and embrace His.
Then bang!
An earthquake or a tragedy strikes, snuffing their last breath, and the time they hoarded is suddenly useless.
We can't be selfish and hoard what we don't own. By God's clock, our tomorrow may not even be another day.
“But I do not account my life of any value nor as precious to myself, if only I may finish my course and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God.” (Acts 20:24 ESV)
10/16/2024
What Has made Your Faith Stronger?
10/13/2024
50 Years and Beyond
THEN and NOW |